It's pretty hard to sum up a worldview in a few paragraphs. But you were talking about authority. I don't think it's bad, or good. But in the context of a complicated society it's necessary. A society needs rules. How are those made? It's impossible to have consensus about them once a society gets to a certain size. Any other way of making them necessitates a person or group of people being in authority. And how are the rules enforced without an authority?
I believe government to be the best way of making those rules and democracy is the best way of deciding who is in government.
But I do think our version of democracy is bad and there isn't enough consequence for politicians who are corrupt or incompetent. But that doesn't make the principles wrong, more the implementation of them (like Agile, innit?!)
I don't thing politicians are evil or governments are inherently trying to control or oppress people. I actually think most people get in to politics with good intentions but I'd concede that the end result is a lot of corruption and cronyism. I don't think the MSM are just spouting endless propaganda or "fake news" - obviously some are better than others and all have their biases.
In brief "they" aren't out to get you.
The army were wearing uniform in Birmingham because they wear uniform as part of their job.
The USPS dude was just being interviewed to check his story and ask if he could stand by the statement which was written on his behalf.
The Covid restrictions were put in place as an attempt to control the situation - we can debate whether they were good measures, but given they were revoked shows it wasn't just an attempt at controlling us all. Why would they only want to do that for a couple of years and then randomly just stop again?
And so on.
Blind deference to everything authority does isn't sensible, but neither is believing that everything "they" do is intended to control or oppress us.