Being loaded is subjective of course but come on dude, anyone who can afford school fees that high is doing OK. That isn't an assumption, it's just obviously true. There's no way I could afford it and I earn a decent salary. I take the point about being cash rich vs assets rich and noted about the mortgages. I accept that you know a lot more about all this than me. I also accept that some people who have been making plans based on how the rules were are now going to be shafted because the rules changed. But I doubt it's as many people as certain people are claiming. A load of younger people can take advantage of the 7 year thing to mitigate this. You say £3m isn't a lot - I mean, it objectively is. That's a shit-ton of assets to have. It would put you in the top few percent in the country. People might not
want to sell some of their land or sell up completely, but they do have that option and it would make them extremely rich if they do. So overall there are a lot of people in much worse situations.
I have some sympathy for older people who were making plans along the lines of the old rules and their children are now left with a problem, but any change in the rules is going to affect some people and therefore seem unfair to them.
This made me chuckle although you may be too young to get the reference.