Can't help but feel you've missed the point, well actually you haven't at all you are far too smart for that...you've deliberately made the point about something else
In this country we have a little thing called Op Yewtree, we have put people on trial who think that their celebrity allows them to get away with sexually assaulting people.
Grabbing women by their genitals is not an assertion of your heterosexuality, it means you lack self control...the way a young child can't control themselves and grabs at things.
I don't care about him philandering, i think for too long people believe that someone having affairs affects their political judgement...it doesn't
Thinking being famous gives you access to whatever you want and gives you automatic agency to violate someone is something else.
So whether he was talking about sexually assaulting men or women is totally inconsequential.
And if you don't agree, let me ask you this....what would be your immediate reaction be if Donald Trump grabbed your wife in such a way?